Husband Found Out That His Wife Was Naturally Born As A Man After Almost 20 Years Of Marriage!
When you marry the person you fell in love with, you are expected to know everything about her. In return, she is also expected to be transparent and real to you. But what if you just found out a life-changing detail of her past after decades of being married?
The “horrific” truth came out as a surprise for the 64-year-old Belgian who discovered that he was married to a transgender woman he met almost 20 years ago.
The man, who was only named Jan,was devastated when he found out that his Indonesian wife named Monica was born a male and underwent sexual reassignment. According to Daily Mail UK, Jan was 44 years old when he met Monica who was just 27 at that time. Since Jan’s second marriage was failing, he fell in love with Monica immediately. He claimed that he did not think of the idea that his wife could be a transgender. He said that she was “very beautiful and feminine”. Now that he knew about her past, Jan now understands why was she “no good in ironing”.
After they got married, they lived in the city of Antwerp in Belgium.
‘She was 27 years old at the time, so I asked her if she wanted children. I was glad when she said she didn’t as I was 44 and already had two of my own. Over the years she said she was taking the pill, and even during sex I never noticed anything, though now I understand why she always used a lubricant, which is apparently normal among transsexuals. She was always a good mother to my children, and also a fantastic cook, though we wasn’t that great at cleaning and ironing – and now I know why!’ Jan said in an interview with Daily Mail.
Jan’s marriage with Monica started to be challenging when he noticed that she has been going out late at night, wearing revealing clothes. He has also seen her looking at pictures of young men online. Jan’s son even claimed that he heard rumors of Monica being a former man.
The suspicion became the ultimate truth when Monica’s cousin came to visit them in Belgium. Her cousin exposed the truth and told Jan about everything. The old man then confronted his wife and she confessed being a transgender after being married to Jan for 19 years.
‘One evening I confronted her and she finally confessed she had been born a boy and had a sex change operation. My world collapsed in a few seconds. I was horrified. I feel like have been violated for almost 20 years.’ ´
A Belgian judge refused to let Monica leave Jan. As a result, she was given the opportunity to stay at their home in Antwerp. But because of the damage, she has done, Jan does not talk to her although they are under the same roof.
‘We live in separate rooms and rarely speak. What Monica has done to me and my family is unforgivable. I just want her out of my life.’
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